My Conclusion?

I have concluded today (whether correctly or incorrectly), that my husband just does not care about us.
When I spoke with him on tuesday I asked him to text us when he got to Atlanta. No text.

I had texted him yesterday as to whether our son had an appointment today. I did not hear back until around 1pm. By which time I had already confirmed the appointment was for TOMORROW. He did not know and said he would call if I wanted. I told him I already had. I then commented that I thought he was going to text us so we knew he got there safe.

No response as of yet and it is almost 10pm mountain time and midnight on the east coast.

I imagine he must be overwhelmingly busy. What with not working and having no children to worry about. Or five cats and a house to clean.

While he is so busy he cannot respond to a simple text, I will be leaving work early THREE times this week to get the kids to their therapy and psychiatrist appointments. So i work after they go to bed. Which means all I do is work. But he is the one who has "lost himself"?

Is it really that hard to text? Or that hard to actually think about us?

While he has not responded to us, I have gotten my daughter to and from therapy. Took the kids to the grocery store and to get a cookie at a bakery. I got them showered. I fed them dinner. Had discussions about Bio Mom. Bio Dad. Death. Skin color. Adoption. Past foster parents, that there will be no new parents, and then some. Put them to bed.

Doing nothing must sure be exhausting!!