I am annoyed with the therapist. Though it is not his fault. He is a nice man. He may even be a good therapist. I have been seeing him for Attachment Therapy for my son and for awhile he turned into a marriage counselor for my husband and I. I keep seeing him as I am working through this stuff with my husband and to talk about ways to help with my son.
The thing is, I already have the tools I need for my son. The tools are not working. No one has any new tools. I know he could be worse. But he is so frustrating. Even understanding the psychology he drives you nuts. I wish I did not understand it. Then the therapist could tell me something and I would have an Ah Ha moment. The therapist has such great wisdom like "keep doing what you are doing". Huh.
It is not much different when we are talking about me. I am pretty good at self-analysis. I can tell you what I am feeling and why I am feeling that way. I am sort of doing his job for him, which is again not his fault. I can point out to him that I believe I am sabotaging something and I can tell him why I am doing it.
I am probably not much fun for him either : )
No comments:
Post a Comment