I was frustrated today over the events of last night with my husband. Even had a long talk with my friend/crush about it. I told him that if I had been out of line with my expectations to please let me know. I figured it might help to get a male perspective. He confirmed that my expectations were indeed reasonable. He commented that yes, sometimes kids are inconvenient and interfere with your plans. But they are your responsibility. He also seemed blown away by my husband's "inability" to pay the entire child support amount. He noted that he made a good deal less than my husband (when working 40 hours) yet he makes it work.
When I saw. My husband tonight I approached him about the situation. He said that he realized that he had screwed up. That he had overcommitted himself. That he did not connect that it would be mothers day. I told him the fact that it was mother's day is not really the issue. It is that he did not think at all. Just did what he wanted without regard to others.
It seems he got it.
...things aren't always as they seem...just sayin'! Here's a crazy thought...he got it for this time. You WILL pass through this again...grrr...
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